When people around us say "The end is near, and there is no time to waste!", it's easy to misinterpret the need for rest as an excuse for idleness or even neglect. Yet, the importance of being able to serve others effectively when we ourselves are emotionally and mentally depleted is a topic seldom discussed. This neglect often leads to premature departures from one's calling or even early retirement due to unaddressed exhaustion.
Consider the irony: despite experiencing burnout, we find ourselves trying to extinguish the flames threatening to consume others. Despite feeling entirely spent, there's a persistent belief that if we can prevent just one more heart from breaking, our efforts are not in vain.
Even as we navigate our own struggles, we continue to offer shelter and support to those in need, believing that the patience, love, understanding, care, and perseverance we demonstrate are not only beneficial to others but also enriching for us. Yet, beneath this fulfilment lies an undeniable truth — we are exhausted.
Someone once said, “Broken colours colour better.” Scripture reminds us that God often chooses the seemingly weak and imperfect for His purposes (1 Corinthians 1:27). However, God does not call us to serve to the point of emptying ourselves entirely. Serving from a place of depletion benefits no one and can lead to further strain.
This conversation isn't merely about stress or the usual anxieties of life. It's about the deep-seated exhaustion from a relentless routine, the burden of emotional baggage, and the continuous effort to mediate conflicts.
Recognising the need for breaks and rejuvenation is crucial. Such times of rest are not mere luxuries but essential for maintaining our effectiveness in service. Taking time for spiritual renewal and fostering healthy social connections is vital.
As we labour in anticipation of God's kingdom, the work requires us to be refreshed and energised. Jesus Himself emphasised the importance of taking time to rest, as seen in Mark 6:31, "And He said to them, 'Come aside by yourselves to a deserted place and rest a while.'"
Thus, as we commit ourselves to spiritual and communal endeavours, let us not overlook the need for our own rest and renewal. Embracing moments of reprieve allows us to serve with renewed vigour and empathy, living out the love and resilience our faith calls us to exhibit.
